No matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I'm bankrupt without love.
1 CORINTHIANS 13:3b (Msg)
Love means living the way God commanded us to live. As you have heard from the beginning, His command is this: Live a life of love.
2 JOHN 1:6 (NCV)
"Life is about love. Because God is love, the most important lesson He wants you to learn on earth is how to love. It is in loving that we are most like Him, so love is the foundation of every command He has given us: "The whole law can be summed up in this one command: "Love others as you love yourself." p123
"Relationships, not achievements or the acquisition of things, are what matters most in life. So why do we allow our relationships to get the short end of the stick? When our schedules become over loaded, we start skimming relationally, cutting back on giving the time, energy, and attention that loving relationships require. What's most important to God is displaced by what is urgent.
Busyness is a great enemy of relationships. We become preoccupied with making a living, doing our work, paying bills, and accomplishing goals as if these tasks are the point of life. They are not. The point of life is learning to love - God and people. Life minus love equals zero." p125
"In our final moments we all [will] realise that relationships are what life is about. Wisdom is learning that truth sooner rather than later." Don't wait until you're on your deathbed to figure out that nothing matters more." p126
"When you transfer into eternity, you will leave everything else behind. All you're taking with you is your character. That's why the Bible says, "The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love." p126
"... I suggest that when you wake up every morning, you... pray this: "God, whether I get anything else done today, I want to make sure that I spend time loving you and loving other people - because that's what life is all about. I don't want to waste this day." Why should God give you another day, if you are just going to waste it? p126
"Time is your most precious gift because you only have a set amount of it. You can make more money, but you can't make more time. When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you'll never get back. Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give someone is your time." p127
"Knowing that one day you will stand before God, here are some questions you need to consider: How will you explain those times when projects or things were more important to you than people? Who do you need to start spending more time with? What do you need to cut out of your schedule to make that possible? What sacrifices do you need to make?" p128
"The best use of life is love. The best expression of love is time. The best time to love is now." p128
Points to Ponder:
Life is all about love
Verses to Remember:
"The entire law is summed up in a single command: 'Love your neighbour as yourself.'"
Questions to Consider:
Honestly, are relationships my first priority? How can I ensure that they are?